Why? If he follows an account that has a lot of provocative material - especially if he follows it after you get together - I’d address it. The crime: Following a provocative account. I’m never on Instagram, so I guess that point is moot. Sometimes I’ll follow accounts on Twitter just because I find them funny. Why? Just because he’s following a girl, doesn’t mean he wants her. The crime: Following someone else on Twitter or Instagram. However, the day we get engaged (assuming Facebook is still around), I’ll change it specifically to let everyone know that we are both off the market, hopefully forever. It’s not that I don’t want other girls knowing I’m “off the market” or anything I would just rather not deal with online drama, especially if/when we break up. If it spreads through the grapevine, so be it. If I happen to date someone exclusively again, I’ll know, she’ll know, my family will know and the people closest to us will know. My profile currently doesn’t show if I’m single or not because it’s nobody’s business but my own. If anything, I’d rather it not be posted. Why? When I was younger, I couldn’t wait to have a girlfriend and change my “Single” status to “In A Relationship with _.” Now, at 25 (which seems decades older), I honestly don’t really care. The crime: He doesn’t want to be “Facebook Official.” If he’s only liking her stuff and nobody else’s, I’d worry. If it keeps happening, just calmly address it to him. If he’s known for being very active (he “likes” a lot of people’s statuses and photos) and he happens to like a bikini pic, let it slide. If he’s liking bikini pictures, that’s a different story. If he’s liking the picture of her at college graduation, it’s most likely harmless. If he’s liking every other thing she posts, that’s a different story. Why? If he likes something, it’s most likely harmless. The crime: “Likes” and “Favorites” on statuses and photos. Ladies, if you’re worried about what your man is doing on social media and/or if you should be worried, let me give you the breakdown from a 20-something male’s perspective: That will be a somewhat separate article.) And that led to this article. Now, before the ladies try to reach through the screen for my throat, what I mean is, I see it much more frequently in women, than men.Ī friend and I were talking the other day about how girls drive themselves crazy looking at pictures their boyfriends “like” on Instagram, etc. However, I will try to put a spin on the topic to make it an original article.Īs more social media applications pop up, seemingly so does the paranoia amongst people in relationships, particularly women. The “social media is ruining relationships” topic has been talked about so often that this is hardly original.
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